Hi there.

Been so busy(I mean really, really busy) with my new job at the second law firm where I have been working at since the beginning of August. It was my dream job and I heard how stressful and tiring it would be to work there. The overtime, loads of work to be done, and unlike a normal secretary, you have two or three bosses. For a newcomer like me, I have two lawyers to serve. Been absolutely daunting past two weeks when I had to stay back A LOT to help with the impending trial. One day I stayed after work till 5am. Another day was a Saturday when I went back to the office from 1pm to 12am. And, Human Resource later told me that to claim overtime on Saturday would be from 2pm onwards because they fucking included the lunchtime. Who the fuck includes lunchtime on Saturday since it is officially a halfday till 1pm only. But, I couldn't be bothered to argue that because not only was I exhausted, I wasn't that petty about one extra hour. Fine, in future if I have to come back on a Saturday again, I would go for lunch and only come back at 2pm.

Anyway enough of ranting about my job, nobody wants to read about job stuff. Boring shit.

It's been five months of singlehood for me. Unlike people who cannot withstand being alone, I am enjoying being single and living according to my own rules for now. Maybe I'll meet an interesting guy someday and we'll hook up. But till then, I'm happy. :)

It's a natural occurrence to grow out of things. A song, a dress which you loved and had to wear at least once every week, a crush, even a friend. That's probably why people 'grow' apart and it's silly to ask me why I took three and a half years to figure out that my second last relationship did not work out. We just grew out of each other towards the end. People change and the goals we have in life change. One day you wake up and realize things are not going to work out no matter how hard you try, because you no longer share the same goals in life. And you are no longer the same person you were that three and half years ago.

Till next time. xx